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This is Part 1 of 2 in the LOTUS VI Lesson, Mitigating Turbulence. This lesson is what most people think of as the meat of the matter, where the rubber meets the road, so to speak. It embodies what most people think of as the ‘creation process’ or ‘daily practice.’ Because of its length, it is presented in two parts.
This lesson was withheld until now for a very important reason. It is only a piece of a larger picture, but most of us assume it IS the whole picture. It should be emphasized that by itself, this step may not produce the desired results if not employed with the other two steps in the process: Circumventing the Stress Response and Overwhelming the Creatrix. Having said this, let’s proceed with laying out the pathway to Mitigating Turbulence:
- Develop a Vision of your Ideal Life. This is not nearly as easy as it sounds, and it should take about two weeks to a month to get a good working Vision.
- Develop a core set of Affirmations. These are derived directly from your Ideal Life Vision.
- Create a Daily Visioning Process based on your Ideal Life Vision and your core set of Affirmations. This process utilizes a personal, customized protocol that you will develop in the second part of this lesson.
Step 1: Develop a Vision of Your Ideal Life
The first and most important guideline is that your Ideal Life is your Ideal Life. It does not belong to your friends, your family, or anyone else. It is uniquely yours. This lesson presents a method to help you develop your own personal Ideal Life Vision that leaves you in the driver’s seat.
When you first attempt to create a Vision of your Ideal Life you might realize you have been influenced by other people, circumstances, institutions, or belief systems. These are called External influences. They represent energies and ideas that originated outside of yourself, and at some point in your life, influenced you. If you are an accountant, for example, your profession may influence what you think you want out of life. Your Ideal Life might, in fact, be more in line with a career as a painter or singer, but the fact your current profession is Accountancy influences you. Parents, spouses, and even ideologies such as religious beliefs, national loyalties, or political party affiliations affect all of us. The key here isn’t whether these ‘externals’ are good or bad, or right or wrong, but whether, they are in fact, external in nature, versus feelings, attitudes, and tendencies that are internal and arise from your core nature.
To develop your Ideal Life Vision, notions, opinions, and beliefs that you acquired externally during your lifetime need to be evaluated. Why? Because to find out who you are on the inside, you must do your best to identify the part of you that originated from the outside. How many of your beliefs are really your parents, or your friends, or your church’s or your country’s, or even the predominant view of a particular school you attended?
It is very important to engage in this activity with the understanding that external influences are not to be judged as good or bad. This is NOT an exercise to rid yourself of external beliefs. But, rather, to get to your spiritual, Internal core Self. Until we get there, we can’t possibly know what Ideal Life works for us because our vision can be clouded by outside influences.
An example might help. John is a doctor who wants to heal and help people. He takes great pride in being a doctor: people admire him, the money is good, and his parents are proud. He is also a talented musician who jams sometimes with a local blues band though his schedule seldom allows it. In high school, he wrote a song that was picked up by an emerging rock band and the single briefly reached the Top 40.
Now, it would be natural for John to develop an Ideal Life Vision that incorporates the medical profession, since that is what he does. Most of us would admire this as a goal – there is nothing wrong with being a doctor. As John develops his Ideal Life Vision, he remembers that his mother was a doctor and pushed him to become one (an External Influence), which is one of the reasons she is so proud of him. Although John enjoys being a doctor, he loves music. And he is talented at both. In examining his Ideal Life Vision, he must try to imagine that he can be or do anything he wants. If that is to be a doctor, then wonderful. If it is to be a successful musician – there’s nothing wrong with that either. But it’s not always easy figuring it which it should be.
John must evaluate whether he truly wants to be a doctor – whether he became a doctor because of his mother, or whether being a doctor satisfies part of his basic nature. The same is true of his love for music. It may not actually be about the music, but instead, his jam sessions may have begun as and still are, a way to hang out with close friends. There is no way for anyone to know, except for John, what resonates with his core being. Of course, an Ideal Life Vision incorporates far more than just what we do for a living, but this example serves to illustrate how External Influences can cloud our vision of what we truly want out of life.
Fortunately, formulating your Ideal Life Vision isn’t a one-time process, and you’ve got some time for self-analysis. Over several weeks, you will create and revise your Ideal Life Vision, and this brings us to the second guideline: Your Ideal Life Vision will elicit positive emotions. Emotions give it energy. This is obvious if we reflect back to the last lesson on Gratitude. Emotions are the driving force in the universe, and for us to effectively create a life that makes us happy, we must create in alignment with our emotions – with our core being.
Each of us has a unique, individual nature. Mine is different than yours. Said another way, my fundamental vibratory frequency is different than yours, and each of our frequencies is as unique as our fingerprints. Any Vision related to our unique core energy (internally derived) has great creative power. Visions that are derived from another’s core energy (externally derived) provide no power for us, because they aren’t really us at all.
So, take out a pen and some paper (preferably a Journal or a Notebook). Now, without any thought, simply write out what your perfect life would look like. Do not worry if it is comprehensive, or if you have left anything out. Just go with the flow. When do you get up? What does your day look like? What do you do? How do you dress? What do you eat? Where do you live? Who are you with? How do you feel? For this exercise, forget whatever hurdles or challenges you currently face in your life. Forget money, relationships, or health concerns. Just let it flow from the heart. Do not worry what someone else might think or say if they read it. This belongs to you and only to you. It’s fun. Let it be.
Now sit back and read what you wrote. Dwell on it for a while. Do you like it? Does it resonate with you? Don’t change anything about it yet. Just think about what you’ve written. Read over it several times and once more before you go to bed.
Evaluate your Ideal Life Vision over the next several weeks. Each day, read it over at least once, and make notes or changes to it. Revise, revise, and revise again. If you aren’t ready to commit to changing the Vision itself, write down new comments that come to mind in your journal: words to change, things to add, things to delete, thoughts about the influences of others, etc. Reflect long on whether your Vision reflects external influences, or whether they are derived internally, from your core Self. It’s okay if something in your vision represents an external influence, as long as it is also resonant with you. Ask yourself if the idea excites you? Remember, you are seeking the real you, not what someone else thinks you should be.
It is important that you consider and dwell on your Vision every day for at least a few weeks. At some point, you will feel that your Vision is finished, and, at that point, you’ll almost be. There’s one last step.
Put aside your Vision and think as little about your Ideal Life as you can for several days (at least three days, but not more than a week). Try to put it completely out of your mind. After several days, get out a blank sheet of paper and re-write your Ideal Life from scratch. Do not try to recall what you wrote before; do not review your last draft before you start – just write what comes to mind and what makes you feel good. Now, compare this new draft to your last draft. What changed? What was added; what was left out? If you left something out – ask yourself why? Was it really important? Was it an external influence? If it was external, is it really you? It may resonant with who you are, even if it is external – you just have to find out if it does or doesn’t. If you added something to your vision you hadn’t thought of before, ask yourself why? Is it important? Should you leave it in?
Once you’ve done this, revise again as YOU deem necessary. There is one last guideline. When you envision your Ideal Life, it should create excitement in you. This is to be differentiated from fear or apprehension. It’s the kind of feeling that keeps you up at night because you are so excited thinking about it. It’s a thrill you feel at the core of your being. When your Vision elicits that kind of feeling, you know that is YOUR Vision. So go with it! Prepare a final version in such a way that you can review it every day. A journal works great, but there is no magic in a journal. Just put your vision into a form that would available to you for a daily review and works with your life and schedule.
The final version of your Vision is yours to modify at any time you like, but I strongly suggest you only modify it after careful and long consideration. Always ask how the revision makes you feel. Does it excite you? If not, you are probably trying to fit in some externally based belief, which although it may be a part of a sound and important belief system, it may not be resonant with what and who you are.
Remember that the Universe is energy. Everything is energy. By aligning our Vision with our core self, we align our core energies with our most fundamental desires and goals. We are turbo-charging our efforts. Essentially, we stack the cards in our favor. Conversely, if we align our Vision with something we really do not resonate with, but feel we should be pursuing because of some external influence, we would have very little creative power, because the source of our Vision isn’t us. In this case, the cards would be stacked against us.
Developing an Ideal Life Vision is a technique that helps put the most power behind your Daily Visioning Process, and therefore produces more effective results.
Step 2: Develop a core set of Affirmations
Once you have your Vision in place, the next step is to break it down into Affirmations. The first guideline is to develop Affirmations regarding ‘what’ you want in your life, not ‘how’ you want it to happen. For example, a part of your Vision might suggest that you want to help others in need. From this, you might write the following affirmation: “Each week, I spend several hours of my time volunteering to help others have a better life.” You might also want financial independence, so from this, you might add, “Money flows to me effortlessly from many sources.” Affirmations express ‘what’ you want ‘to have’, ‘to do’, or ‘to be’.
Affirmations should not say anything about the “How.” For example I did not say that your wealth is coming from winning the lottery. This added prepositional phrase represents the ‘how’, not the ‘what’. If we designate the ’how’, we limit the Creatrix, and although we think we know the best way for something to happen, the Creatrix has the entire Universe and unlimited potential at its disposal, and so by designating the ‘how’ we may not be (and probably aren’t) allowing the Creatrix the most flexible and fastest way to manifest our true desires.
Affirmations are used in our Daily Visioning Process, and allow us to create the exact ‘whats’ that will make our Ideal Life manifest. Typically, most teachers of the Law of Attraction (as well as most Personal Coaches) like to categorize people’s lives into several basic areas as a tool to develop Affirmations. There is never 100% agreement on what these categories should be. That’s because you can slice a pie many different ways. You might consider (but do NOT feel you MUST produce) Affirmations in the following areas:
- Financial
- Personal
- Relationships
- Spiritual / Religious
- Physical / Health / Athletic
- Education
- Social
- Career
- Mental
The above list is NOT meant to be authoritative. Again – there are many ways to slice a pie. If you have anything that you feel represents an area of your life not represented above, please add it. Remove areas that aren’t that important, or that are not really represented in your Ideal Life Vision. Do NOT let this list influence your Ideal Life Vision in any way. Think of it as a tool to help spur your creative juices. Using it, and / or adding anything that YOU feel relevant, develop a list of positive Affirmations that relate to your Ideal Life Vision. Here are a few guidelines:
- Always state an affirmation as positive. The Creatrix only understands images and emotions, so the thought of debt, for example, sends a communication of debt to the Universe. Is this what you want? Do not create an affirmation, for example, like this: “I want to be debt-free.” Just don’t do this! The only thing the Creatrix would recognize from this affirmation is the concept of debt, and that’s what it would give you. Try to always state your Affirmations in terms of what your Ideal Life Vision is: “I want to have an abundant source of income, providing me ample funds to have any lifestyle that I choose,” as an example. This implies you aren’t debt-ridden, AND avoids the concept of debt. And isn’t that really what you want? You want abundance; not a lack of the absence of abundance. Go straight to the point with your Affirmations. State what you want; not what you do NOT want.
- Generally state your affirmation in the first person. Say “I _________”. In this regard, there are three basic groups of Affirmations: You can 1) have, 2) do or 3) be.
- I have: “I have abundant health.”
- I do: “I work out three times a week.”
- I am: “I am recognized as a successful teacher (doctor, actor, singer, etc.)”
- Affirmations should be about you, not someone else. We co-create the Universe with others, but not for others. You can try to change another person, but if you want to avoid some very unpleasant Turbulence, just don’t try it. Stick to changing your life. This doesn’t mean that you can’t attract people into your life that might help you meet your goals. Just don’t try to change other people. Affirmations are most effective when about you.
- Your Affirmations should reflect your Ideal Life Vision. Recall that emotion is the primary energy behind the creative process. If your Affirmations do not reflect your Ideal Life Vision, they will have little energy, and your results will be minimal. I cannot stress how important this is to your success. The entire point of this exercise is to align the core energy/frequency of your consciousness with your Affirmations. When you energize your Daily Visioning Process this way, it has great power.
Try to produce somewhere between three and twenty Affirmations. You will eventually pare these down to 3 to 6 Affirmations. Once you have created your Ideal Life Vision and your associated Affirmations, you can begin to develop your Daily Visioning Process. This activity uses both your Ideal Life Vision and your Affirmations to focus your thoughts and emotions into a clear and understandable communication to the Creatrix. By doing this, you clarify and energize your intent to the Universe, thus helping to manifest exactly what you want in life.
Your Daily Visioning Practice should take about 20 minutes per day, and involves two important concepts we have yet to discuss: Emotional Anchoring and the use of appropriate Verb Tenses (or submodalities). Both of these will be introduced in the next part of this lesson, along with a method of customizing a Daily Visioning Practice for yourself.
(Due to its length, this Lesson will be continued in LOTUS VI(ii).)